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The New Year: A Gentle Approach to Change


The New Year is often framed as a time for transformation; new goals, new habits, a fresh start. While this can be motivating for some, it can also create pressure, self-criticism, and unrealistic expectations for others.


I want to acknowledge something important: mental health doesn’t reset on January 1st.


Emotional wellbeing is not about sudden change or perfection. It’s about awareness, compassion, and steady support over time. Rather than focusing on resolutions that demand more from you, consider intentions that support you:

  • Prioritising rest and balance

  • Setting healthy boundaries

  • Asking for help when you need it

  • Making space for reflection instead of pressure


Growth can be quiet. Healing can be gradual. Sometimes the most meaningful step forward is simply continuing to show up for yourself.

As we move into the New Year, we encourage a kinder narrative, one that values mental health as an ongoing journey, not a checklist. Whether you’re seeking change, stability, or support, counselling can provide a safe space to explore what you need at your own pace.

You don’t have to face the year ahead alone. Support is available, and your mental health matters, not just today, but throughout the whole

year.

 
 
 

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© 2025 by The Countryside Counsellor, Layla Pettit MBACP.

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